this is how you radiate
I treat others with love because I treat myself with love.
You are inherently worthy of respect, honesty, patience, and compassion, and it is a joy to show you my respect for your dignity, your inherent worth, by offering you these things. You must do nothing to earn them.
It is also a marker of pride (the healthy kind) and self-respect to expect this treatment in return, from all with whom you come into contact.
I gently guide or release relationships that do not respect my inherent worth.
What you accept is how you show yourself, and others, what you are worth.